Emotions often run high during custody disputes. As a result, children may feel scared, confused, or even responsible for the conflict.
North Carolina courts prioritize the child’s best interests, but parents play the key role in keeping their child safe from harm. If you’re going through a custody battle, you can take steps to protect your child’s well-being throughout the process.
Keeping children emotionally safe
Children should not feel like they have to pick sides. Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of them. This can lead to guilt, anxiety, and emotional distress. Instead, reassure them that both parents love them and will continue to care for them.
Routine and stability help children feel secure. Try to maintain their normal schedule, including school, extracurricular activities, and time with friends. Encourage healthy coping strategies, such as talking about their feelings, drawing, or playing outside.
If your child shows signs of stress, such as trouble sleeping, mood swings, or withdrawal, offer comfort and support. If needed, a counselor or school psychologist can help them process their emotions in a safe space.
Protecting children from physical harm
If you suspect your child is at risk of physical harm from the other parent, start keeping records of any concerning incidents, including messages, emails, or reports from teachers or caregivers. North Carolina courts take allegations of abuse seriously, and documentation can help prove a pattern of harmful behavior.
Supervised visitation is an option when there are concerns about a parent’s ability to provide a safe environment. The court may order visits to take place in a monitored setting to ensure the child’s safety.
If you need immediate protection, you can request a temporary emergency custody order. This order allows the court to limit or suspend the other parent’s visitation rights if there is evidence of abuse or neglect. The court may also order evaluations or investigations. These steps help ensure the child ends up in a safe and supportive environment.
Protecting a child during a custody dispute requires patience and careful action. By prioritizing their emotional and physical safety, you can help your kids adjust and thrive despite the challenges of the situation.